Burqa is an enveloping outer garment worn by some women following Islamic traditions to cover their bodies when in public. There are various articles or posts about whether its use is oppressive to women or not? Some support it in the name of religion, modesty or to protect women’s dignity, some oppose it and consider it a sign of women oppression and attempt to restrict their freedom. I read both point of views and both have some positives and negatives in them. According to me what to wear is totally personal choice, if any one wants to cover their body using Burqa or any other outfit I don’t think anyone should have any problem with it, but at the same time if someone wants to wear some revealing outfit then also people should not make a big deal out of it, it’s personal choice, people are free to wear whatever they feel is appropriate for them. If anyone is forced to wear some particular type of dress in name of religion or even modernity then it’s wrong, it should be questioned.
People who support (some rather demand) use of Burqa for women claim that it protects them from sexual harassment (by covering their body), so what they mean is if men see exposed body parts of women (like face, hands or legs, even in public places) they may not be able to control their sexual emotions and there is a high risk of sexual abuse for women because of their physical appearance. This is an attempt to put the blame on victim, so even if it’s the men who can’t control their behavior and commit the crime there is an attempt to put blame on women. Is it just because people think they are soft targets? Or people think that it’s easy to force them to follow society imposed rules? No religion or cult movement is very kind with women, they don’t give equal status to them, founders of all these movements and sects are men, so obviously they designed the rules which suited needs of their own gender which was dominant in society. They wrote books which glorified women, even made them demigods but didn’t offer them equal status. Introduction of all these dress codes, very rigidly defined role in family and society was an attempt to control them and confine them so that they don’t compete with men. This trick worked for centuries because of male dominated society, women had no support to fight for their rights until feminist movements started almost century ago. Slowly but steadily in last few years we have made lot of progress but still a lot needs to be done.
Dress codes for women are imposed in many places, they are even imposed for both genders at certain places or functions like marriages or some parties etc., personally I am against all this, I don’t like anyone telling me what to wear. I like to wear clothes in which I feel comfortable and I respect others choice and expect other to respect mine, as I like to choose what I want to wear and I am sure others are like to choose their own dress. The topic of school uniform (or work uniform) is totally different, this rule is imposed to bring uniformity and feeling of togetherness in school or work place and it is for both genders. I feel amazed as well as enraged when some people attempt to bring God and religion in all this, these things have nothing to do with what clothes people should or shouldn’t wear. Clothes can protect us against weather or make us look more attractive but we cannot put entire blame on person’s apparel if he/she is victim of physical or sexual assault, there are many cases where kids get sexually harassed, what role does their dress play there? So the theory that more revealing clothes encourage or invite sexual assault is basically flawed, it pathetically tries to put entire blame on victim when the major problem lies somewhere else. Educating men and women to respect each other, teach them to treat each other equally is better solution than putting entire blame and moral responsibility on women. We all need to respect each other’s choices, we should not judge anyone based on what clothes they wear, which country they belong or what religion they follow.
If anyone wears Burqa by choice it is like any other dress, why anyone should have any issue with it but if anyone is forced to wear it in name of religion, god or just because of their gender then it becomes a symbol of oppression, discrimination and violation of human rights. The dress which we wear or food which we eat is personal choice which we make based on our likes and dislikes, I don’t think anyone of us would like if someone forces us to eat some particular dish just because we belong to some specific religion or because of our gender, we all like to taste different cuisines, some we like and some we don’t, same way we should think about clothes. People like to express themselves and their clothes are one of the ways which some people choose to express themselves we can’t take this right away from them. Let it be individual’s choice what they want to wear free of any social pressure. I am not against Burqa or any other dress, people are free to wear what they like, forcing dress code only on women is sign of male chauvinism, in today’s world we don’t need it and we should not encourage it, once we stop doing it will be another step towards bringing equality for both genders in our society.
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